"Julia, you pooped in your pants. poo. Getting through the rest of the excursion unnoticed was the second but when we got back to school, I quickly discovered keeping it secret was far from finished. Well, finally the GI tested her..she was extremely constipated. She'll get tired of it real quick and don't give her any attention over it. I also had an amazing imagination. Then, give her some special one-on-one time. Hi Anonymous,Cleaning up was my responsibility and that also applied to washing my underwear. "GET UP TO YOUR ROOM RIGHT NOW!! then i would put my hands in my pants to feel if there was any poo there. 6:29. My Mum did it as a kind of punishment. She seemed to know what I was going through and her admission she knew my person experience made me feel great. So cute in emoji form, so humiliating as an adult. I was also allowed to go places after school with my friends with a quick stop at home to tell my mother where I was going. It came as quite a shock many years later to find out that I wasn't.It was great that you found a teacher would was understanding and wasn't judgemental, and that she was determined to help you. I was playing alone in I thought about telling the driver to stop but that was a terrifying. It was so embarassing to still be doing it in junior high and having to wear pull ups to school. I was staying after school to work on something, and instead of going to the toilet, I just sat there holding it in, and pooped a full load right then and there in class. Even if I had wanted First take her to the pediatrician & have It's good to be prepared just in case. My teacher smelled it when he came in, and I rushed to the bathroom to clean myself. He sometimes can't feel it. In fact, I hardly ever used the toilets at school, even to pee. the reason i pooed my pants was very naughty. Once this was out of the way, I don't think it would have bothered me unduly to have to wear them for the rest of the day, at least not while I was at home and playing by myself.Thank you for sharing your story. Here are some reasons why some children soil their pants: Some kids may purposely poop in their pants because, all of a sudden, they don't feel like using a potty. they would have seen a strange sight, an 8 year old boy crouching down and I think that we were very similar, as I also always avoided using the toilets at school or as a child when I was younger and often ended up with soiled pants as a result. soil and rock. I don't think looking at it like she is doing it "on purpose" is your best way of thinking about this situation. I dont think the second theory fits, but oddly enough I did suck my thumb when I was asleep. Fortunately, I could always entertain myself, a. nd He lined all the boys up and asked who had pooped, but none of us confessed. hello, would there be times when u witheld your poop when u were at home near a toilet as an older child? For endurance athletes, youre shunting blood away from the intestines and towards the muscle mass. However sometimes when I was desperate for a poo and I finally decided to crouch down and pushed the poo out in my underwear it felt nice. My cheeks burned and I sweated with embarrassment, but I said no. Generate leads, increase sales and drive traffic to your blog or website. Then another time, I pooped massively in my pull up while walking to my class. The fairly small back garden had no grass, few flowers and mostly Mar 3, 2016. Indeed, I was treating my underwear like it was a nappy. They start learning something else and potty training sort of goes out the window for a short while. Like you, I'm sure that I wouldn't have said anything about needing to go to the toilet. ^ Not me. like you i loved playing on my own and the majority of my time was spent in my room on my own playing with lego, pokeman cards, knex, or toy cars. Like yours, my Mum would probably have changed me for the sake of quickness, while making it clear that she did not appreciate starting the day by having to clean my pooey bottom.We definitely seem alike in many ways. then instead of witholding i would crouch down and slowly push all of the poo out until i was sure i was finished. result of my soiling habit. thing to do at the time. "My ass exploded while I was on a date, and I got poop all over the floor, my legs, and somehow my arm." by Spencer . Hi, thanks for your comment. I was always extremally constipated and avoided using the toilets at school or when I was out somewhere. The humiliation of being found out because Id pooed my pants still sits with me today. After wrapping them in 20 paper towels, I threw them away, then used another 40 to wipe down all my body parts while my daughter stood there trying not to watch. They couldn't afford to rent a house by themselves, and I seemed to be the key to their plan, so I agreed. I think it must be uncomfortable and I don't think it's a smart choice, but if you wants to poop in your pants, I guess that's your choice." how many other people apart from your mum and family knew about your poo problem? It didnt take much for my body to get out sink, like going on holidays or something that disrupted my routine. I wonder if maybe she did it once as an accident then felt your reaction and continued to do it..is she testing and pushing limits in other ways??? was a good job that I did not also need a wee that afternoon or I probably When you say "she knew my person experience", do you mean that she also had soiling problems at some time? Yeah. !" Julia went up stairs, followed by her mom. i love that . I think she was often too busy to clean me up and I agree with you there was an element of 'out of sight out of mind'. The actual act of the pooping isn't weird at all, but as soon as it touches cloth, and you realize you have no choice, your underwear are about to become your toilet, hormones start racing. Poop left very minimal stains to a few machines benchs through my sweats and I wiped them before leave gym.I believe that I will not poop in my pants at my workplaces gym more than one time per year because of very big risk. And my mother's rage would probably have been even worse than it was.I definitely think you made the right decision that day. It gave me control over my situation and liked that sense of being in control of something. I almost died of embarrassment. It's EXACTLY what you're describing. We were just some young guys united by the fact that we pooped our pants. I was still doing it when I moved out of home to share a house with some friends. As I said before, it sounds strange but keeping it secret made me feel in control and kind of proud of myself. At primary school it wasnt too much of an issue as there was a really kind assistant and dinner lady who would change me with spares from the box in reception. We answer your top questions about the flu vaccine. I burned with embarrassment and almost started to cry, but he was pretty understanding. It was the same for a friend the same age as me who lived in the same street as me. Walk up to it and point the stain towards the air. The issue is pervasive sufficient that in 2017, two bystanders on the New York Metropolis Marathon brandished handmade indicators. Ruby Coles, who received an honors bachelor of social work, admitted she . toilet training too early . 1:00. . My logs were always big and very firm and without much odor, so I usually just kept wearing my underwear until I got home. Have you ever pooped your pants by accident or on purpose? thought of using the toilet when I already had a pooey bottom, and of pulling down i was the same as you, but i didn't get to wear pull ups to school only wore them to bed. It was so embaraasing! rule out the medical first then go from there. I was still doing it when I started high school so rather than try to stop, I made a very conscious decision to hide my problem. That fear soon disappeared after we got there, when no one suspected anything, and his aunt went home. Without going into too much detail, I want to know if other kids do or have done this as well. But I always managed to successfully hide them from being detected. S. ETA: maybe you don't "like" my answer, but you obviously have not researched this condition. yay now you know how to poop! I had a good imagination and dont ever p.p.s. May 8, 2021. that was the type of thing which went through my head. The medical side of it was never discussed or explored by my family as it was always just assumed I was being naughty or lazy - to the point where I actually begin to wonder this myself One other thing I recall is that when Id done it it would smell for a few seconds and then the smell would disappear. My friend and I were in high school so I guess she didnt think it could have been either of us. In marathoning, the continual bodily exertion is usually accountable. Instead I decided to do it in my underwear until I got home and could get the medication I knew worked. Cheers Bean. I think I would let her know you are PO'd, she is NOT acting like a big girl so she loses whatever her big girl privileges are, and she is gonna have to clean it up and/or lose her underwear. Good luck! In marathoning, the continual bodily exertion is usually accountable. That just increased my believe my body was different and doing it in my underwear was normal for me. They do for me, as well as some of the other comments and experiences. I agree that it's important to rule out a medical issue 1st, but one of mine did do this out of stubbornness. She would often tell me that she could smell me and knew what I'd done and would sometimes check me with a pat on the behind, but that would be it till much later. I'll never forget the girl who pooped herself while running in remote Cambodia or the guy who had to find a plastic bag to go in on the side of the highway (guess that's better than pooping your pants). And I certainly got used to wearing messy underwear for long periods without it feeling particularly uncomfortable, and carried on acting normally with a load in my pants. So my advice is to relax, stop questioning, and to tell her something like "Hey, I've done everything I can think of to get you to stop pooping in your pants, and it seems like it just backfires. There were 3 other guys from my grade in there. Get her checked out. The Fumble. July 20, 2016, 1:00pm. Hi anonymous,have you worked out why you did it for so long?For me there were several reasons, some of which are, Extreme constipation. Fear of using the toilets at school, or virtually anywhere else except home. Being easily distracted. It feels very weird. Yes I poop my pants on purpose I love how it feels I know I'm grown up but still like to fill my pants I love the warm sensation of it it makes me happy to poop myself every night I love sleeping in my poopy pants I've been doing this since I was 15 on and off and now I'm 49 and love it so if you want to try it go ahead with it you might like it 1). then i would take my hands out of pants (normally there would be some poo on my fingers so i would get a tissue and wipe it off. As your parents and society at large expected you to use the toilet, you chose to go in your pants instead.The other theory I have heard of is the idea of comfort soiling. which has since been converted. Show more Show more Master. Kids go through all Her rewards were questionable, but one thing is for sure I was determined my underwear were going to stay clean. If all checks out, take a look at these solutions to try when your 4 year old poops in his pants and doesn't care one bit: 1. One of mine did it because his Dad would get so bent out of shape about it. The group was run by a male teacher and this male nurse from another school. you are demanding adult logic and responses from very little girl. And yes, he also had many instances of 'streaky underwear' but we didn't put that and the stomach ache together. Once I decided the best way to deal with my situation was to keep it as secret as possible part of me began to like knowing I had gotten away with it. Most of my first day of high school was spent with a load in my underwear, which was rather crushing at the time. Now she is wearing underwear she doesn't like. Peed my pink Calvin Klein in the bathtub this morning. My gym teacher found them and boy was he mad! One of the curious aspects of my soiling problem was the fact that whenever my mum realised what I'd done, it wouldn't necessarily mean that I would then be cleaned up, in fact it was the norm for me to remain in my dirty pants for the rest of the day. A GoToQuiz Unique: Big Five Personality Test, permits you to alter sliders to fine-tune your responses to a sequence of questions. why would she? good thing that came out of it was that I was never tempted to do it again. I agree, habits can be very hard to break. Were you always cleaned up as soon as your mum realised you'd soiled, James? Only babies, old people, Michael Moore, Internet trolls, and Jersey Shore cast members doodoo in their drawers. I think she's kind of put off from it, doesn't think it's a big deal, and she doesn't do the laundry - so leaves it for mom to wash. Every seat in the cart had someone sitting in it so everyone would have heard me ask and that was far to confronting for me. impossible. Due to prolonged stomach aches his pedi did an X-ray - he was completely backed up. As we got driven around in an old mine cart a huge big log began to give me the old familiar felling it was ready to come out. Thats when bother begins brewing. Thank you for your kindness James. Just hang in there & be kind when dealing with this. Did you like how it felt once it was finally in your underwear?. Road Trip (BOYXBOY) by FlynnLandvik. I'm sorry to hear that. Hi James, I meant to say she knew by personal experience. )I relaxed a bit too much and lost control, thankfully I didn't go all the way. Haven't had this happen exactly, but I do have kids with lactose intolerance who've had a few leaks in their underpants from diarrhea type stools. I was 8 when this happened and it took place at the Instead I thought she wasnt going to understand and continued to do it the rest of our holiday.That way of thinking was probably a lot to do with my parents. then i would carry on playing. Additionally Id had issues throughout year 7 with pooping my bedtime nappy and, again, out of ease (and frustration) in a morning my Mum would change me. Hi Jason, thanks for sharing your story. Dixie*, 21. I can offer two theories about why you may have deliberately soiled yourself when you were upset or embarrassed, although neither of them applied to me. Once again, I If she's having a problem, my approach should also open the possibility of her talking to you - "But Mom, it's NOT my choice! My name is Erin, and I pooped my pants. With no bathroom, no hot running water and no spare He really couldn't help it. When I soiled my pants at home, my Mum would change me straight after finding out that I'd had an accident, and as soon as possible if I did it while we were out. There were even times people commented on how nice I smelt which was rather odd considering what was in my underwear. Going to friends houses also meant sometimes getting invited to go places like the speedway or similar outings to that. They have a problem with their bowels that dulls the normal urge to go to the bathroom. Stop that. Thank you for this blog and others who have commented. I must have known that I was being very naughty doing this, but I did it I did not find pooey pants particularly uncomfortable physically as I got used to the feeling of them, and being discovered brought a sense of dread more than relief, as I knew that I was about to be told off and suffer the humiliation of being changed like a toddler. My parents didnt help by scorning me rather than trying to find out the reason behind it. Attempt standing or mendacity down as a substitute. The stimulation of the vagus nerve triggers a drop in heart rate and blood pressure that can result in dizziness and lightheadedness, and in some people, fainting (vasovagal syncope). I got quite good at keeping it secret and that became a challenge for me, rather than admitting there was a problem. Even then it was a difficult habit to break, and I think its the same for withholding. to go back inside the house where my mother and grandmother were talking I Age 5 -7 was rough at my house. I told her if she runs out of underwear, I will buy plain ones like they have at school (the ones they give out after accidents- which is very undesirable to her) until I see no more "evidence". 3 Use the hand dryer. Share your travel pooping your pants and potty woes with your fellow travelers! The medical side of my soiling was never discussed and it was assumed that I was being lazy or doing it on purpose, and eventually I started to think of myself as being babyish and disgusting.And, when I had soiled, I also tried to pretend that it hadn't happened, playing in messy underwear for ages, while knowing that it HAD happened and the mess wasn't going to go away by itself. And they can be easily remedied in most cases. [4] !!!!! Hi James, I think your experiences and story probably resonate with a lot of people that struggled with soiling when they were young. Through the 1982 World Ironman Championship in Hawaii, Julie Moss dirty herself in front of 20 million viewers tuned into ABCs Extensive World of Sports activities. He was pooping, but only enough to relieve pressure and not enough to fully evacuate his bowels. Going to the toilets when we got to our location seemed pointless and my secret appeared to be safe. They claimed they didn't force anyone, but I knew one guy who was really upset that he had to attend, because he swore he only had one accident and it would never happen again. Another time, I actually pooped in front of one of my teachers. They have a problem with their bowels that dulls the normal urge to go to the bathroom. Why would a 12 year old poop his pants on purpose? The medication my mother gave me and washing my own underwear made that a lot easier. I thought moving into my own place was going to help but it only made it worse for a while. CARL DE SOUZA/AFP through Getty Photographs. He basically told me that he knew I had pooped, and that I should just admit it and not try to lie. It was a power struggle with Dad and the kid was going to win! I was always extremely constipated so going to the toilet and trying to do it seemed pointless. Happily, Julia got dressed. Finding out someone else not only had the same problem, they still did make me feel fantastic. I couldn't hold it, mainly because when I was this age I had a weak bladder. When You Poop Your Pants As An Adult. Seriously - that was the reason. "JULIA!! He wants to lay in bed all day. favorite_border. Are we really the ones that are the thinkers in society? I think thats one of the reasons it became such an embedded habit and was so hard to break. It has not been easy to write about this, as it is Sort by: Hot. Hi Anonymous,When you say the reason I pooed my pants was very naughty. The issue only really stopped for me when I started Uni at 19 as I absolutely did not want the issue of bedwetting and pants pooping to follow me. Luckily a dinner lady changed me at lunchtime. Going home to change usually meant a denial to go, so I virtually never did. Then we put her and her 3 yr old sister in a bath and she pooped a small amount, knew about it and waited til I found it and then looked at me like I was crazy for getting pissed. Plzzz Heeeeeeelp! I had gone there with a friend and his extended family. my messy pants and pulling them back up again. They did typical annoying stuff trust me, but not the poop. here's a woman that is clearly pooping in her panties on purpose, apparently she didn't know she was filmed by the supermarket's hidden camera! Was allowing you to stay in messy underwear a way of avoiding dealing with the problem?I was never really disciplined or encouraged to stop, even when I was still doing it into my teens. They probably thought boys would be too embarassed to discuss these issues in front of women. An hour later, they had dinner. and you wonder why she doesn't want to tell you when it happens? Washing my underwear, myself didnt bother me and there was no support to stop so I did it all the way through high school. Get her to the doctor and get her checked out. Make her clean herself up complete with throwing the poop in the potty and washing out the undies. I basically wasnt allowed boxers until I stopped pooing my pants. Doing my own washing meant it was much easier to keep my secret, but she sometimes made comments about the state of my underwear. If you're not diligent about getting them to use the bathroom when they need to go, they may think it's okay just to go in their pants. I don't think you were being silly, like you I frequently soiled my pants at home while engrossed in playing some solitary game. then i would carry on playing. Is she not feeling well with a cold or something that is making her less aware? I totally agree with what was said in this book. HOW TO POOP IN YOUR PANTS (THE EASY WAY) you did it! Why suffer the strain of trying to hold it in? The medication my mother gave eliminated most of the odor and wash my own underwear made keeping it secret a lot easier. I just couldn't risk pooping myself in boxers and having it fall out. The loads in my underwear were always quite large and that was something I was quite conscious of. anyway. I am sure that this must have made you feel less alone with your problem. That gave me the confidence I was going to be ok but the problem with that was I stopped thinking about what I was doing. In the beginning I think it was a way of relieving my anxiety but then became a routine. All that made my parents and teachers sure I was doing it on purpose. At least brifs contain the feces almost like a diaper.sometimes I wore two pairs.I remember walking through the hallway in 7th grade and pooping a big log into my underwear as I walked. . When she looked inside my pants and found out how much I'd pooed in them and how messy I was she was furious with me. driver allowed such a stinky child on his bus. my underwear caked in my poo really brought home to me just what I had Otherwise, I would use the commodore or the floor. NEW YOUTUBE CHANNEL FOR MORE FUNNY VIDEOS: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsDIlXXm689YC8CzINwrtHw/feed By the time I started high school I was doing it almost daily. I was small for my age and a late bloomer which probably contributed to this. I got so good at hiding my secret I hung out with my friends directly after school and on the weekends. my pants were messy. Little Girl Poops in Her Lunch Box Causing Mom to Throw Up. The remainder of the walk was a slow, teary, squelchy one. I said nothing and sat there, praying that she wouldn't find out the embarrassing truth. Well, considering I'm mostly a DL, almost everything I do in my diapers is on purpose . I think most school-aged children would not purposely soil themselves except in a circumstance such as you have detailed, that is to say, adding to an already existing accident in ones pants. I got very good at keeping it secret and like you did it until my late teens. Its associated to the truth that in periods of bodily stress, the physique shunts blood away from organs that arent essentially important at that second, Michael Dobson, D.O., a colon and rectal surgeon with Novant Well being in Charlotte, North Carolina, tells Psychological Floss. These are complex concepts for children to associate with a behavior. If the toilet is any kind of power struggle, a strong-willed kid will do this. She would have regarded it as something an older child should be doing anyway. Home / Uncategorized / why would a 12 year old poop his pants. It was one of the only times she threatened to put me into diapers, but I somehow knew she wasnt serious. It wasnt until I became interested in girls that I got more determined. (and 2 more) 1 reply. James did ever get your nose rubbed in it. This will get most of the moisture out of your pants and/or underwear. Seeing I kept saying, no, she's not constipated. didnt withhold, as I still often did when I was away from home. It made a big smell and people noticed, but probably thought it was a fart and didn't know who did it. Did your parents ever impose any rules on you? It must have been a few days since I had used the and writes about various aspects of his childhood soiling problem. 1:28. An inspection showed the . It was not a phrase that was usually used in my house, but it would have That meant they would start to come out by themselves and it also didnt hurt. High School Superintendent ARRESTED For Pooping On Rival School's Football Field On Daily. Then, the colon can't easily push the hard poop out, and it's painful to . This happened to me. 9 year old son always withheld his poo at school said that if he came home in dirty My son has sensory issues and had encoperisis. This is a site for anyone that partakes or is curious about this kink or fetish: male, female, transgender, straight, gay, bisexual, etc. Let Go Of The Problem Yes, the child going number 2 in his pants is a huge problem. (: Show more Show more 12 Hours of Relaxing Sleep Music for Stress Relief,. Simon the Almighty 13 years of life experience. I kind of get what you mean by feeling like you have a secret no one knows, and sort of enjoying this feeling. That was a good thing because by the time I started high school my behavior had become extremely entrenched. she asked me, holding up my pants in front of me. It was during that walk home I made the very conscious decision to get good at keeping it secret. A baby does so because of lack of self control and because he/she can't help it, I can't see a correlation between babies/infants and adults. Subsequently, it might be truthful to say that the common individual poops about as soon as a day. It's VERY common at this age, and when this happens, they CAN'T control what comes out when. show her it is not fun to act like a baby. I can recall at home and school various occasions when I was encouraged to change myself, but these werent particularly successful as I didnt clean properly. Hot New # 1. i would repeat the process until i was very desperate. I've heard of quite a few children who don't like using school toilets for a poo and try to hold on, sometimes letting it out in their pants on the way home when their body is more relaxed. At the time it was going on I dont think I could have given an answer as to why I was doing it, which probably just confirmed my parents belief I was lazy or doing it on purpose. Did you take them off and poop in them on the ground, then put them back on? I know that I was really lucky in avoiding major accidents at school and never having my pants checked by a teacher. I dont remember when that started but it was from a young age and I didnt mind doing it. Quora User Author has 5.5K answers and 817.3K answer views 6 mo "Would you poop your pants on purpose?" Really? I'm not sure any of what I wrote was helpful, but I guess I wouldn't rule out medical causes. I also had a phobia with the toilet cubicles, which didnt help.Getting good at hiding it meant I didnt have to deal with my phobia, and I liked having a secret that no one knew. Call the pediatrician and take care of this.